seven important point to overcome failure
seven important points to overcome failure
1. PAST IS NOT EQUAL TO FUTURE
you did something in past and you did not get the result you wanted so it doesn't mean that same is going to happen in the future also. some times people attached some tags to them .my bad luck! I am good for nothing! there is no success in my destiny. this is all rubbish and completely wasted because you create your own destiny or future through your actions wisdom and knowledge. so your past is never equal to your future.
let me tell you something through which you will learn this. is the level of your maturity you had in your past the same? or is it changed? defiantly you are saying from within that it is changed .you were less mature in the past and now you have become more mature. it means if your maturity level has high, are you going to do the same mistake you did in the past? No, you will not do so .why? because your learning has changed, your wisdom has changed. because now your wisdom and knowledge are upgrades and your experience so much from your failure .now you can create a different future.
first, start reminding yourself that the past is not equal to the future.
2. LEARN FROM YOUR PAST
your past has only one role in your life and that is what you can learn from it? let me tell you how to do it! be attentive .for example that if you had to face so many challenges through some of your past events. and you are getting the same kind of challenges in the future also that means you have not learned from your past Which means you did not learn or extract anything from it. that is why you did not upgrade yourself .therefore you have to learn and upgrade yourself from there then you will be able to move forward.
How do learn from the past? let me tell you a technique. whenever you want you can sit and relax on some chair or some sofa. after then there may be the sequence of events of your business project or something in which you were not successful .just imagine that you are sitting and a projection of that event is being screened on the wall .and n now as you see this event try to identify where I was mistaken and what was there to learn. what were the things I was aware of so this kind of failure would never happen in my life?
what is happening in its background? when you see your past through this particular method so you are in disassociated state .disassociation means you are watching it from a distance. you don't go back in that but you come into learning mode, that what was there in my part to learn .being so much success in life is possible if you start learning from your own action.
3. START WHERE YOU ARE
many people are waiting for perfection, I will start my journey when things will be perfect. it is the same as you are waiting for all signals to turn green then you will drive in your car. will it be possible? never, many people are doing the same mistakes, when things w2ill be perfect and I will get the 100% amount which I require, then I will start. if you are doing this your mind is playing a game with you. which feels comfort in not doing something and discomfort in doing something.
resources can be created anytime you should just have resourcefulness. so you should not lose your resourcefulness keep it in mind. you can be creative, if you are creative then you can create so many things. so you have to keep in mind that starting from where you are and don't wait for perfection.
4. BUILD STRATEGIES
what will be your action, and what will be my strategies? what kind of culture do you have to keep in your business? how do you have to keep your interaction with your clients? and how to serve them in the best way .because until you don't have proper strategies, what will you implement into it? you may have heard this statement many times "failing to plan is planning to fail ". that means if you are failing in making plans it means definitely you have planned to fail.
so you need to build your action plan and strategies. start observing those who are doing the same you want to do .and they are more successful than you, you will meet these kinds of people always, and when you analyze and understand their way of working you get the strategies. and changes are high that you also get similar results, may not be the same similar result can be created .so you have to copy the similar success strategies but just don't be a copy cat. you need to think by yourself also how you can improve it more.
4. SET GOALS AND REVISED THEM
more successful people have a common habit of setting goals. they always set their goals and outcome that what they want .what kind of result do they have to create? that means you have to set your goals and revised them.don't make unrealistic goals, nothing should be unrealistic, today you are on this level, and where you can reach on next level? it is your first milestone or first goal.set your goals and revised them from time to time.
you set goals and now you have reached them redefine your goals, so you will upgrade yourself constantly.
6. TRACK YOUR SUCCESS
many people make a mistake on this particular point, what do they do? they make plans they make strategies and work upon them, but they don't keep track of whether I am moving toward my outcome or away from my outcome. am I going toward my goal or away from my goal? they are such task-printed people that they only focus only on their task .that means if you talk to them they will say that I am working hard but is your hard work giving you the result which you want to create?
if it is not producing results so you must keep in your mind that somewhere tour strategy is not working. Maybe you have not defined your goals properly. what is the error which you should cross-check? how you may come fast back to the track toward your goals. so track your success.
7. STAY IN LEARNING MODE
there is nothing more important than this, you need to keep yourself in learning mode. why? there is a statement by Khalil Gibran "either you grow or you decay ".that means either you go up in your life or go down. there is no fixed point in between that I am still the same as I was. if you are still the same as you were yesterday still you have lost the 24 hours of yours.
if you keep yourself in learning mode so how many changes can be there? whatever you earn and if you want to grow in your life very much, do you know what you should do? invest in yourself, upgrade yourself. those who keep themself in learning mode which means those who upgrade themself regularly. become more successful in their life and their quality of life becomes amazing. they are the ones for whom people say wow how amazing life he has, we would wish such a life.
start working on these 7 points to bounce back from failure.
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Very useful knowledge
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